Reconnect nudges and relationship rhythms

Namory can nudge you to reconnect when it’s been a while. These nudges are based on a relationship rhythm you set for each person.

What a relationship rhythm is

A relationship rhythm is simply “how often I want to check in.”

Examples:

• Weekly for someone you talk to often
• Monthly for a friend you want to keep up with
• Quarterly for someone you want to stay connected to without pressure

How reconnect nudges work

Namory looks at your recent notes for a person and their rhythm. If it has been longer than that rhythm since your last logged note, Namory can surface a reconnect nudge.

Reconnect nudges can appear:

• In the Plan tab
• As a notification (if notifications are enabled)

Snoozing a reconnect nudge

On a person profile, you may see a “Reconnect reminder” banner with an option to push the nudge out:

• Push to next <rhythm> check-in

This is a way to say “not yet” without turning reconnecting into a hard deadline.

Choosing rhythms that feel kind

A rhythm is meant to support your relationships, not judge them. A couple approaches that work well:

• Start with a longer rhythm and shorten it only if you want more nudges.
• Use different rhythms for different kinds of relationships.
• Treat nudges as “context to consider,” not obligations.